This post spotlights the nervous system regulating tool: Diaphragmatic breathing.
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Who is Betsy Leighton?
I’m a writer, blogger, and healer dedicated to helping individuals reconnect with their innate peace and wholeness by healing nervous system dysregulation. My personal experience with chronic illness called Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS) shapes my work, and my content offers tools to empower those with chronic illness to improve their well-being and take charge of their health.
I created the Sacred Self-Healing Method and am a trained and certified Safe and Sound Protocol provider, an author, blogger, and A Course in Miracles Teacher. I hold a Master of Divinity in Spiritual Counseling and am a trained spiritual mentor, with certificates in sound healing, aromatherapy, nutrition, and Sacred Deathcare. I offer a self-study certificate program in the Sacred Self-Healing Method, provide spiritual counseling and coaching, courses, and supported subscriptions for the Safe and Sound Protocol.
What is MCAS?
Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS) is a chronic condition that affects all organ systems. It can cause severe, disabling symptoms every day, including potentially fatal anaphylaxis.
The common triggers for MCAS are infections, toxic exposures including mold exposure and EMFs, trauma, concussions, and stress.
MCAS often occurs with other chronic conditions like Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS) and Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS). Managing MCAS is challenging because many healthcare providers are unaware of it, and diagnostic tests can be unreliable. Treatments include antihistamines and mast cell stabilizers in the form of medications and supplements, along with avoiding triggers. Check out this post on managing MCAS.
Bottom-up healing strategies
Bottom-up healing strategies for nervous system dysregulation refer to approaches that begin with the body’s most basic physiological and sensory experiences—such as breath, posture, touch, and grounding—and work inward to calm and restore balance in the autonomic nervous system. These strategies emphasize self-regulation through simple, accessible practices that engage the body’s innate capacity to heal itself. For example, techniques such as deep breathing, mindful body scanning, gentle movement, and sensory grounding (like focusing on the sensation of your feet on the floor) help activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which is responsible for rest, digestion, and recovery. By fostering present-moment awareness and physical connection, bottom-up methods support the nervous system in shifting from a state of chronic stress or hyperarousal to one of safety, stability, and resilience. These approaches are often used in conjunction with therapy, mindfulness practices, or trauma-informed care, and are especially effective for individuals experiencing anxiety, trauma, or emotional dysregulation.
What is nervous system dysregulation?
Nervous system dysregulation occurs when the autonomic nervous system becomes stuck in patterns of chronic stress, threat, or shutdown rather than fluidly shifting between states of activation and rest. The nervous system continuously scans for safety or danger and responds through distinct pathways that influence heart rate, digestion, immunity, and emotional regulation. When the system perceives an ongoing threat—whether physical or psychological—it may remain locked in a fight-or-flight or collapse state, even after danger has passed. Over time, this loss of flexibility can manifest as anxiety, fatigue, pain, digestive issues, sensory sensitivity, or difficulty feeling calm and connected.
Many factors can drive nervous system dysregulation, including concussions and other brain injuries that disrupt neural signaling, as well as psychological trauma that conditions the body to expect danger. Infections and chronic inflammation can sensitize neural pathways. At the same time, toxic exposures—such as mold, heavy metals, pesticides, or other environmental toxins—can directly irritate the nervous system and impair detoxification pathways. Non-native electromagnetic fields (EMFs) are also thought by some researchers and clinicians to act as a low-grade, constant stressor, especially in already sensitive systems, thereby further reducing the nervous system’s capacity to self-regulate and leading to limbic system dysfunction.
Healing nervous system dysregulation often requires more than cognitive strategies alone and instead focuses on restoring a felt sense of safety in the body. Bottom-up approaches that work directly with the nervous system—such as breathwork, gentle movement, sound-based therapies, and safe sensory input—can help reestablish regulation. One example is the Safe and Sound Protocol, a listening program designed to support vagal tone and social engagement pathways through filtered sound. By gradually signaling safety to the nervous system, these approaches can help rebuild resilience, improve physiological balance, and allow the body to move out of chronic survival mode and back toward regulation and healing.
Diaphragmatic breathing for nervous system dysregulation
Diaphragmatic breathing is a highly effective tool for nervous system dysregulation because it directly stimulates the vagus nerve, which is the primary driver of your parasympathetic nervous system. When you are stressed or anxious, your body shifts into a “fight or flight” state, characterized by shallow, rapid chest breathing. Deep belly breathing mechanically forces the lungs to expand and gently presses on the vagus nerve, triggering the release of acetylcholine. This chemical messenger acts as a natural brake, rapidly lowering your heart rate, reducing blood pressure, and returning your body to a calm baseline.
Beyond the neurological benefits, this breathing technique optimizes the balance of gases in your bloodstream, which stabilizes the brain’s threat-detection centers. Chronic dysregulation often leads to subtle hyperventilation, causing an imbalance of \(O_{2}\) and \(CO_{2}\) that fuels feelings of panic and physical tension. By slowing your breathing rate and focusing on prolonged exhalations, you help normalize these levels. This physiological shift sends immediate feedback to the amygdala—the brain’s alarm system—signaling that you are safe and allowing your logical, cognitive processes to regain control.
Practicing diaphragmatic breathing also builds long-term resilience by increasing heart rate variability (HRV), a key indicator of your nervous system’s flexibility. A higher HRV means your body is better equipped to transition smoothly between stress and relaxation throughout the day. By regularly engaging in this deep, rhythmic breathing, you are essentially exercising your nervous system, making it less reactive to everyday triggers and better able to recover from acute bouts of dysregulation.
Brief practice
Here is a quick, four-step diaphragmatic breathing practice you can use anywhere:
1. Get Comfortable
- Sit upright or lie down on your back.
- Place one hand on your upper chest.
- Place your other hand on your belly just below your rib cage.
2. Inhale Slowly
- Breathe in gently through your nose for 4 seconds.
- Direct the air deep into your belly.
- Keep your chest hand completely still.
- Feel your belly hand rise slowly.
3. Exhale Fully
- Breathe out through your mouth or nose for 6 seconds.
- Purse your lips slightly like you are blowing out a candle.
- Feel your belly hand drop inward toward your spine.
- Empty your lungs completely.
4. Repeat
- Practice this cycle 5 to 10 times.
- Focus entirely on the movement of your belly.
The bucket theory
The bucket theory simplifies understanding symptom reactions with MCAS. Imagine your body as an empty bucket you don’t want to overflow. Reactions to various stimuli fill the histamine bucket at different rates, forming the total histamine level (how full your bucket is). More histamine means more symptoms. By managing triggers, reducing exposures, and taking medications and supplements, you can control your bucket’s level.
Know your typical symptom progression
Understanding your symptom progression during a flare is key to developing your rescue plan. This post discusses how to recognize symptom progression so you can be prepared to address them.
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Sign up for the SSP!
I’ve found the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) to be the most helpful bottom-up healing strategy if your nervous system has been overloaded with toxic exposures, including mold or non-native EMFs, chronic infections, concussions, stress, or trauma. The SSP is a passive listening therapy that helps heal nervous system dysregulation. Many people with MCAS and other chronic conditions have nervous system dysregulation stemming from infections, toxic exposures, concussions, and trauma. The SSP is an easy-to-use app that lets you listen to specially filtered music for 30 minutes each day as part of a 5-hour cycle. Studies show the SSP has a profound effect on mental health and chronic conditions. Here’s a short podcast describing the Safe and Sound Protocol.
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Heal your mind!
While the SSP is a bottom-up, somatic therapy for healing the nervous system, the Sacred Self-Healing Method I offer is a top-down nervous system-healing modality that focuses on cognition, attention, perception, and emotion, using the mind’s higher functions. The SSP and the Sacred Self-Healing Method complement each other and together produce lasting results. Here’s a short podcast on my self-healing practice.
I provide one-on-one in-person and remote chronic illness and caregiver coaching, as well as Sacred Self-Healing Sessions based on the Sacred Self-Healing Method, a proven, novel co-creative healing modality detailed in my Books.
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My latest book, Living In The Light: Healing with Forgiveness, Sound, and Light, is all about the tools that have been most helpful for me to heal: forgiveness, sound, through nervous system retraining using the Safe and Sound Protocol, and light, through entraining my circadian rhythm with the energy of the sun. Living In The Light is available here!
Rocks and Roots chronicles my solo backpacking journey on the Superior Hiking Trail and my efforts to overcome nervous system dysregulation, gut dysbiosis, and Mast Cell Activation Syndrome symptoms to complete the 328-mile hike successfully.
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Disclaimer
The preceding material does not constitute medical advice. This information is for information purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, cure, or treatment.




